Okay, I'm going to post this here so everyone can read it so I don't have to explain this more than once.
We aren't talking right now. Yes, we had a good weekend, but I need to focus on my life right now and I was having a really hard time doing that while still talking to him. We agreed that we would talk again eventually, because we don't want to never speak again, but right now there has to be no contact. I even deleted him off facebook and eharmony (yes, that is how we met for those who didn't know).
Now I have to go out and find a job (or two) so I'm not wasting away bored all day.
Lesson learned here:
Never EVER move in with your boyfriend. Big mistake. Big. Huge. (Pretty Woman quote, get it?! I've always wanted to say that, haha!)
3 comments:
I know how hard the no contact thing is, believe me! But I really honestly believe it's whats best for you and I'm very proud of you for making this decision!
I believe that in another place and time you guys can be friends... but only when you start over as friends. You can't step back from being bf/gf to friends. Relationships don't downgrade - they upgrade or they end and begin again. Always clockwise motion :).
Good luck on the job hunt! Take time to take care of YOU, sounds like you're already on the right track! :)
I'm just going to say ditto to what KJ said.
:-) Take care of yourself!
I know this is difficult for you Sara, but for now I think it's best this fizzles out and you focus on yourself. If that man wants a relationship with you, let him chase you pretty girl!
john
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